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Friday, November 2, 2012

Life since then...

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Well, it has been some time since my last post. Since then, we have been on a roller coaster ride so to speak.  Well maybe a few/several/many (eight) different rides; like when you go to six flags, they are all lined up and have their own loops and twirlies and ups and downs?!  Yes, that has been our life and home the past several months.


Starting in May, roller coaster one:
We had to build an extra room in our home for our pending Little Blessing's arrival.  We live in an association and are not permitted to change the outside structure of our home.  So, we had to find the space inside our home to build a room into........Master bedroom took the fall.

Our master was a bit oversized if the real intent of a bedroom is to sleep.  So, we moved everything from our bedroom into our living room and started the renovation. We had a mattress on the living room floor that we slept on.  Being 5 months pregnant and growing, it was challenging, but I knew in the end would be worth it!

              
Baby Room walls up, needing new carpet and paint 

Roller coaster number two:
The room was completed in July and in the meantime we decided to redo our floors.  We had a month and a half until our due date and felt the floors should be done prior to our little one's arrival.  We moved all of our belongings into the garage (super excited that everything we have fits into our garage!) and checked into a hotel for several days while our house received new carpet throughout the living space and bedrooms, the dining area received an engineered wood.   Previously, we had a cream colored carpet throughout, including the dining area, and we chose a multi-colored carpet that is made of corn fibers so the VOC is as low as wool (without the price tag!).

Dining Room and Living Room before new flooring



                                         Dining and Living Rooms after new flooring


Roller coaster number three:
Moving back into our home five weeks before our due date, we decided to tackle the redo of our bathroom.   This included new paint, new flooring (from vinyl to a granite composite tile), and change the vanity.  In order to save money, we decided to sand and stain the vanity from a light oak to a nice black.  We bought the rustoleum counter top transformation kit for a white counter top........well, that didn't turn out so well (user errors, I'm sure).  In light of time (a week and a half from due date), we decided to purchase a new counter top.  This proved to be a much better option in the end.  This project was completed days before we delivered our little one (and I am still decorating it).

No pictures for this yet as we are still decorating it.

Roller coaster number four:
We were fortunate enough to have many friends give, or lend, us the items necessary to care for our pending arrival.  We also hit a lot of yard sales over the summer to find necessary items and clothing.  This was such a blessing and helped us out tremendously!!!  Due to receiving an amazing hodgepodge of items, we decided to paint all furniture items white in order to match.  While my husband was hard at work doing that, I "mod podged" paper onto shelving and the back of a bookcase to better fit the colors I wanted to showcase in the baby room.  (we are still working on painting the bookcase)  We had the crib, rocking chair, and changing table ready for the baby's arrival.

I will post more pictures, once we have the bookcase done, of the entire room.  In the meantime, the below picture is the changing table (a quasi picture of it before is in the top photo of the bedroom).  


We also painted the diaper pail (beside on left) orange. 
Orange is my primary accent color for the room.

Roller coaster number five:
I quit my job!  Yup, to be a stay at home mommy.  After 10 years working with this company, we decided it was best for our family if I "stayed home".  It was an interesting day.  My last day was the day after my birthday.  I took my birthday off (had it scheduled in January, before I knew what day I'd be quitting) and when I came to work on my last day, my desk was decorated in a "Happy Birthday/Congratulations for Baby/Happy Retirement" theme.  It was sweet!  (and since then, my husband has received a new position in the company - so two major "job" changes for us in a month and a half!)

And because I love Rainbows....

Roller coaster number six:
The last several Dr appts I had, they were having a difficult time finding the baby's heartbeat.  In the sonograms the baby was always sleeping and the Dr would jolt my stomach to have him move or have me get up or roll around.  This would also cause the heartbeat to go up.  My last appt before the due date, the Dr had an extra hard time finding the heartbeat, even rolling around and poking didn't deliver a strong heartbeat.  The Dr measured the fluid in the placenta and determined that it was too low and said we would need to induce.

This was crushing to me.  I so desperately wanted to 'go into labor'.  I wanted to be sitting somewhere and randomly have contractions start, or my water break.  After our experience with William, I really wanted to have a normal delivery and at the end hear "healthy baby boy".

My husband, on the other hand, who is a planner, was ecstatic to have a schedule!

The night before we induced.  

Roller Coasters number seven and eight are the delivery story and directly afterwards...they are their own long stories so I will share them on a future post.  I'm sure this one has been long enough!

I will not keep you guessing though....Our baby boy was born, and is HEALTHY!!!

And through all of these Roller Coaster Rides, Jesus has been holding my hand and keeping me pretty even keeled and leaning on Him... even being 5+ months pregnant and riding rides that are ranging from the kiddie coaster to the topsy turvy!  Praise Jesus!



Saturday, December 10, 2011

Surrender

Isn't it funny how you can listen to the same song over and over and over again and then BLAM, a new meaning has been attached?   Well, that happened for me today.



I drove to a neighboring town with my dear friend, Traci, and we were listening to one of our fave songs..........on repeat!!   (This is something we do, and just further confirmation we were designed to be friends)   Anyway, in the last two lines of the first verse are:

"There's a wave that's crashing over me
All I can do is surrender"

I grew up in a town that is known for white water rafting.   The river running through consists of class III & IV rapids.  With an upbringing in a town such as that, one can't get through without going rafting a time a two (or too many times to count).  One of the things I remember learning is that if I got dumped out in a rapid (wave), just let the rapid take me through the motion, don't fight it.  Once out of the rapid, swim to the shore or an Eddy.    

Listening to this song today, those two lines stuck out and brought me back to the memory of rafting.  In order to get to the calmer waters so you can swim to the shore, you have to get through the wave. The best way to get through it, is to surrender and it will bring you out - but once out, swim to shore and rest, otherwise you risk getting pulled away by the current and having a repeat situation.

Rocks in the way are often what make the rapids; which paints another fabulous image.  The water rushes all around and over the rock, but the foundation of the rock is solid and does not move.  The rock is not without change though. The water rushing around it is smoothing and changing the shape of this rock, which over time, could change the way the river flows in that area.  

We talked about this in depth.  It's such a beautiful picture of God coming over us and changing us.  When He is molding us, it can be scary, it can be confusing, it can even be painful.  

"Consider it pure joy, my [sisters], whenever you face trials of many kinds,
because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance.
Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature 
and complete, not lacking in anything"
~ James 1:2-4 (NIV)


James tells us "whenever you face trials", not "if".  We will face trials.  In our trials, we can surrender to Jesus to take us through the wave and we can stand firm on our foundation. Or we can fight the wave, which will also tire us from being able to swim to shore and risk forcing us down with the current with the possibility of repeating the situation.

When we surrender ourselves to Jesus, we may not understand what's happening, but there is a peace.  We may not see what is happening, but He will guide us.  It may feel and seem as though our life is in chaos and we don't know when it will end, but He is working something so beautiful in us, that if we fight against it, we will miss the joy and the peace and the blessings that come only from surrendering to Him and His will. 

The chorus of the song explains it so perfectly:

"Whatever you're doing inside of me
It feels like chaos somehow there's peace
It's hard to surrender to what I can't see
but I'm giving in to something heavenly" 


This song has ministered to me so often over the years.    I hope you find comfort in the Truth that is so beautifully shared.


Enjoy!


Sunday, December 4, 2011

Dia de Madre!

Every year, the nation has a day set aside for every mom: Mother's Day.  But today is my Mom's Day.   Yup, that's right, today is:

My Mommy's Birthday!!

In honor of her day, today's post is all about my mom!   So who is she, well

She's a woman who always took people in and valued a 'full house' as we had several of our friends live with us from time to time.  

She loves to laugh, garden, and travel.  

She always has an end table full of library books, and would read them as fast as she got them. 

 She's a hard worker and volunteers where she can.  

She's a giver.

We always had 'an extra seat' and there was always 'enough' for one more as my mom always has an open door for anybody.  I love that about her and am glad she passed that on to me <sniffle, sniffle, tear.....tissue please>.

For all the things my mom has passed on to me that I have to be grateful for, I will only share a few (or ten).  So, because of my mom, I:

  • do what I can for others and show my love by cooking for you
  • have a "can do, will do" attitude (even if I think I can't and don't want to)
  • am cool, calm and collected during an emergency (then get sick & freak out later)
  • am independent
  • have a love for 'old world traditional' decor (lots of natural elements)
  • love mexican food and can cook some amazing enchiladas
  • have to have a pet, an indoor pet.
  • LOVE to read
  • am a thrifty shopper by nature
  • most importantly, have siblings I can't imagine my life without

The old saying goes "mom knows best" and while I'm old enough to know not one person "knows best", I do know that my mom always did the best she knew how.   

And doing is her specialty. 

So, here are a few (and rare) pics of mi madre.  She does not like her pic taken, but I got these out of her :)


A few years ago at my brother's birthday party


Looking for money to pay my niece for the cookie - haha, my lil niece, the entrepreneur 


still during my brother's bday party (I was lucky to get two shots there!)


being goofy w/a silly hat in Homer, AK


She and I at Thunderbird Falls in AK






Saturday, November 5, 2011

Daddy's Girl

Today is my Dad's Birthday!!!  

As a shout out to the best daddy a little girl could have, today's blog is all about him!

YUP - I'm a typical eye-lash battin, sweet talkin, all-American Daddy's Girl!

For all the reasons I have to be grateful for him, I will only share a few (ok 10) as not to bore you.  So, because of my Dad, I:

  • love coffee and huckleberry pancakes
  • am a huge fan of music
  • always want a fire burning
  • love popcorn
  • love to hike, camp and fish (and I clean my own)
  • can survive in the wilderness
  • can fix my own car (if I really want to)
  • can ride horses
  • love a good BBQ
  • most importantly, grew to understand and accept God's love for me

I always get choked up on his birthday or on Father's Day as I know that even though it's his day, it's us kids who've received the gift.  And then I have to listen to that Brad Paisley song "He Didn't Have to Be".        (sheesh, thanks Brad, <insert tears> you could've also provided a box of tissue with every CD sold on that one!)


A few photos of my Dad during my last visit home doing what we enjoy most:


At his home in one of the most beautiful cabin locations in Gibbonsville, Idaho



Fishing at Wallace Lake in Idaho



The strong hands that have loved and taught much



Enjoying the serenity of Wallace Lake in Idaho



Going for a walk about on some nice trails in Idaho



B-B-Qing at his cabin in Gibbonsville, Idaho


xo - Secora